When you think you are in love of someone, and you feel that you want to be her partner, I suggest you ask yourself these questions before you actually utter your feeling.
1. What do you actually like about her? Is it simply her appearance?
2. Do you deserve being her partner? Will she be ashamed of you?
3. Will you restrain her interaction with other people if you become attached to her?
4. Are you willing to accept her as what she is? Will you still love her if you find out all of her bad traits?
5. Are you simply fulfilling your hunger for an attractive partner? Or do you really believe you are the best for her - at least for the time being, and thus, you take her so that she will be happy?
6. Will your 'love' be altered if, say, she get an accident and it completely destroys her good appearance?
7. What does she really want out of you?
8. Are you doing something against God's will?
9. Are you sure that you are not being shameless by wishing what is not supposed to be yours?
10. Will you hurt others if you take her? Will people truly support your relationship?
11. Are you sure she loves you truly?
12. If you do not take her, will someone just snatches it, and thus, what you can see is she being hurt?
13. Are you happy when she is happy?
14. What do you seek out of her?
15. How do you think you can make her happy?
16. Have you been so far faking your true identity in front of her?
17. Has she been so far faking her true identity to people?
18. Are you sure you can be faithful to her? Even when you then found someone twice as well-behaved and thrice as beautiful?
19. Will you willingly, truly forgive her mistakes?
20. What will your reaction be is she decides to break up? Will you still love her? Will you still be her best companion? Best friend?
21. Will you keep your secrets from her?
22. How far do you want to go in this relationship?
23. Are you sure you know her limits in relationship?
24. Are you sure you will not hurt her, and thus traumatize her of relationship for the rest of her life?
25. Are you doing this for fun? to get an experience? to learn something? or you really want this to last as long as possible, and perhaps, your first and last and forever attachment?
This sounds a trifle trivial, but actually, is important if you want to have a good relationship - I suppose.
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